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Making the Most Out of Social Media

We have lived to see the day when social media is an irreplaceable conduit of communication, and source of information and entertainment. Facebook, for example, has become an immensely powerful platform that, sometimes, it even serves as a deciding factor on whether two people are in good terms or not. More than just a fad, social media is a fundamental shift in the way people communicate. But whether it is a good thing or a bad thing depends on how we make use of it.

Most of us might have had thought of shutting down our social media accounts. Apparently, however, we still haven’t mustered enough will and motivation to bring it about. But like what we are always taught, a wrongdoing is not a thing but rather a misuse of a thing. So before condemning Facebook altogether, let’s take a look at some points on how we can make the most out of social media without letting it rule over us. 

1. Stick to its purpose

One general definition of social media found in various websites is “a set of tools that foster interaction, discussion, and community, allowing people to build relationships and share information.” Based on this definition, social media’s main function is to connect people together through virtual exchanges. And it never fails to live up to this mandate. Imagine how convenient it is to contain nearly all of the people in our life in one intuitively designed webpage—neatly categorized by affiliation, complete with thumbnails next to their names—click that button and communicate to anyone in an instant.

Aside from reuniting and catching up with friends, social media is also ideal for sharing information, news, ideas, and interests to one another, thereby developing positive connections and communities. When maximized, it can also improve career, aid causes and organizations, and enhance businesses.

However, when we go beyond these purposes such as when we use social media for gossiping, stalking, bashing, carelessly spreading unverified news items, feeding our vanity and boosting our ego, or posting idle trivialities by the minute, we limit, if not downgrade, its great potential.

2. Align it with spiritual goals

Our online profile is a reflection of who we are. A quick browse on our status messages, photos, and posts is suffice to create an impression on what our character is like. In Facebook, for instance, we reveal our thoughts, routine, interests—our life. If our goal is to be a light to the world, then the online representations of ourselves must also set a good example. So instead of flooding our friends’ news feed with rants posted at the heat of the moment, daily doze of #selfie and #ootd shots, or those misleading satirical posts, why don’t we share something worthwhile and edifying? It can be a factual and well-researched news report, a substantial piece of literature, an uplifting video, and the list goes on. Of course we have the freedom to express ourselves but that freedom must be balanced and not abused. Writer Jessica Zafra wrote in her article Etiquette for Social Media: “Tweeting every thought that crosses your mind and every fart that escapes your digestive system is tiresome and symptomatic of extreme self-absorption, but it is within your rights…[but] they could be used as evidence of your shallowness and narcissism.”

3. Think before posting

Describing Facebook as “catastrophic” to relationships, writer Preston Waters states that: “We have all experienced the detrimental effects of Facebook on our relationship at some point or another. Perhaps the most important social media tool to have ever been created has taken its toll on at least one of your relationships.” There are several factors involved in this assertion but one way to solve it is to think before posting anything. Let’s ask ourselves: “Do I really want to be associated with this post forever?” or “Is this comment beneficial”? In an article in Mashable.com, it is pointed out that “sometimes, emotionally charged posts or questionable content can come back to bite you.” And they sure do.

Consequently, we should be mindful of the things we post online to avoid conflicts. Jessica Zafra, in the same article, said: “Often, people post something on Facebook that is taken out of context, misinterpreted, or read by someone in a very bad mood. Quarrels ensue.” When this happens, it’s wise to avoid picking up a fight in a public arena, dragging down a long thread of heated exchanges where others are free to meddle with.

Thinking before posting, hence, allows us to foster interactions that sow peace and unity, not discord and division. As previously defined, social networking sites are intended to build relationships, not ruin them.

4. Keep privacy intact

Apart from showing our light and pursuing peace, it is also important not to swing the door to our private lives wide open for netizens to pry over. Numerous crimes happen simply because people unwittingly volunteer personal information on their online profiles. On a different but related note, scandals happen when people publicly share something inappropriate or confidential that eventually becomes irreversibly viral, much to their regret. And that is one costly price to pay for letting our lapse of judgment get the best of us. So it is only wise to keep our lives private rather than display it openly and habitually.

5. Do not waste time

Sitting in front of Facebook has proven to obliterate umpteen hours of our otherwise productive time. How can we beat that? I believe that if we stick to what social media is for, align it with our spiritual goals, be mindful of what we post, and keep it private, we will not only save time and energy, but also maximize it as an instrument to improve our lives rather than destroy it.

While we enjoy an access to technology right at our fingertips, we bear the responsibility on what we do in cyber space. When we log in to the Internet, we enter in a new world of virtual reality and we have social media at our disposal. And it is up to us whether it will make us or break us.

References:

http://www.interaksyon.com/article/61677/jessica-zafra–etiquette-for-social-media http://mashable.com/2013/07/28/social-media-regrets-survey/ http://elitedaily.com/dating/13-ways-facebook-ruins-relationship/

Featured photo originally from http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-2302237

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14 thoughts on “Making the Most Out of Social Media

    1. Hello there! Sorry for the extremely overdue response. Thank you for reading this post. Yes, parents do have a vital role in teaching children the right way to use social media. It’s good that your mom encouraged you to use Facebook when you are responsible enough to handle it. =)

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